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Green flags to embrace 12: They can admit to being wrong and apologise when needed. BGN

It is important to own your actions and take responsibility when you have wronged someone. Sometimes you might not be in the wrong during a conflict however, it is always beneficial to reflect on every miscommunication or argument to see how you might have played a part in the way things panned out. How you …

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Green flags to embrace: 2. They make small but consistent gestures. BGN

If you have experienced a lot of red flags in the past, it can be particularly challenging to be aware of and trust green flags. This can be because you may have grown up around confusing and detrimental behaviour traits or if your experiences of red flags have left you traumatised, hurt or in need …

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Green flags to embrace 1. They are a good friend. BGR

We really hope you all enjoyed and found the red flag series helpful. Looking out for yourself often means being vary of, and keep clear of things that instead of helping us progress, end up holding us back and are detrimental to our well being. For this series however, we will be discussing green flags, …

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Relationship Red Flags to watch out for 10: Abusive traits part 1. BGR

As hard as it may be being in an abusive relationship, coming out and even recognising the relationship for what it is, is no easy matter. At the same time it is also important to note that the abuse emerging in a relationship will not be loud and bashful, it will not be wearing a …

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Relationship Red Flags to watch out for 9: Controlling behaviour by BGN

The beginning of a relationship is a time where you’re getting to know each other and discovering each other on an intimate level. So during this period it is natural and even a good thing to focus on the relationship and spend a lot of quality time together. However, being your own person in a …

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Relationship red flags to keep an eye out for 8. Their relationship with others is questionable. BGR

When starting a new relationship with someone it is very important to be able to keep the focus between the two of you. You are after all embarking on a new journey with someone. You need to be able to spend quality time together, give yourselves the opportunity to learn about each other and see …

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Relationship Red Flags to keep an eye out for 6: They have a massive sense of entitlement. BGR

Being in a relationship is work, hard work and easy work. It can be fun and sometimes it can be the most opposite of fun. As well as take you also have to give. As well as talk you also have to listen. As well as being taken care of you also have to provide. …

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Relationship Red Flags to keep an eye out for 5: They constantly deny, criticise, or dismiss you. BGN

In any relationship, it is vital for your wellbeing to grow and blossom as an individual as well as together. When your opinions are not heard, your views criticised, your truths questioned and you as a person are dismissed in a relationship please do not ignore these red flags. Whenever you feel that there are …

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Relationship Red Flags to keep an eye out for: 4. They don’t talk through issues. BGR.

Disagreements in any sort of relationships are normal, I think we can take it one step further and say they are needed. Differences of opinions, overstepped boundaries, our unique code of conduct and personal moral compass should be vocalised despite how it is received on the other side. That is because disagreements initiate conversations and …

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Relationship Red Flags to keep an eye out for 3: Everything is about them. BGN

When there is no space in your relationship for you, your needs, your growth or happiness is it really a relationship? No relationship is fully balanced all the time and that is ok. Sometimes one partner needs more support than the other and at times one makes more sacrifices. As long as you are both …

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