It is always important to understand the full extent of a problem when you come face to face with one.
But it becomes detrimental to dwell too much on what it is rather than how to overcome it.
Your self confidence stems from the understanding of your capabilities.
And to discover them you have to find solutions to overcome the hurdles you face in life.
Because at times we don’t even realise all the amazing qualities we posses until we actually begin to make use of them.
And most of the time the opportunities to discover and make use of our qualities only arise when we need to face and resolve a predicament.
So next time you face a problem that needs solving, look at it as a challenge to help you to not just overcome it but to also help you discover the amazing attributes you already possess.
Remember there is a solution to every problem life will throw at us, it is up to us to find it, put it to use and work hard to conquer it.
It is so easy focusing on the problem and using the negative attitude to give up before even trying, but all that does is eat away at your confidence and give you a bleak view of the life you are living.
Because trying to look for solution provides you with the hope of something better and by persisting and working hard to actually finding a solution…well that just confirms that awesomeness you already have been blessed with.
The life you are living has already begun, but are you going to let the burdens surrounding you overcome you or are in it to win it?
Reflect. Love. Heal.
Brown Girl R.